Comments for Menopause bbs http://menopausebbs.com Just another health perimenopause blog Fri, 30 Jul 2010 03:00:28 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 Comment on COULD SOME SORT OF DEPRESSION/MENTAL ILLNESS HAVE CAUSED MY WIFE TO WANT TO DIVORCE ME OUT OF THE BLUE? by ouragon http://menopausebbs.com/could-some-sort-of-depressionmental-illness-have-caused-my-wife-to-want-to-divorce-me-out-of-the-blue.htm/comment-page-1#comment-39615 ouragon Fri, 30 Jul 2010 03:00:28 +0000 http://menopausebbs.com/could-some-sort-of-depressionmental-illness-have-caused-my-wife-to-want-to-divorce-me-out-of-the-blue.htm#comment-39615 My husband has started experiencing rages over the last 3 months. They came out of nowhere. He's seeing a psychiatrist, and so far has ruled out depression and ADHD. He's now on medication for bipolar disorder. I don't know yet whether it's working. He is abusive toward me for six hours up to overnight about once a week. He is often highly irritable. He doesn't remember the next day what he said. If the dr weren't confirming all this, I wouldn't believe it, and I wouldn't still be here. If she won't go to a dr, I don't know what your options are. You could request a psych evaluation for her to keep custody. If she gets diagnosed, she'll have to get treatment to keep the kids. Good luck. My husband has started experiencing rages over the last 3 months. They came out of nowhere. He’s seeing a psychiatrist, and so far has ruled out depression and ADHD. He’s now on medication for bipolar disorder. I don’t know yet whether it’s working.

He is abusive toward me for six hours up to overnight about once a week. He is often highly irritable. He doesn’t remember the next day what he said.

If the dr weren’t confirming all this, I wouldn’t believe it, and I wouldn’t still be here.

If she won’t go to a dr, I don’t know what your options are. You could request a psych evaluation for her to keep custody. If she gets diagnosed, she’ll have to get treatment to keep the kids.

Good luck.

]]> Comment on HOW SEVERE CAN MOOD SWINGS BE ASSOCIATED WITH MENOPAUSE? by Lia Winslate http://menopausebbs.com/how-severe-can-mood-swings-be-associated-with-menopause.htm/comment-page-1#comment-39623 Lia Winslate Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:47:08 +0000 http://menopausebbs.com/how-severe-can-mood-swings-be-associated-with-menopause.htm#comment-39623 Firstly you have not mentioned your age, let it be.There are various phases of menopause and it mainly depends upon the age. According to age its changing from one phase to another. Menopause has various symptoms by which every women gets stressed.But MENOQUIL is the product that can give complete relief from menopause and its symptoms. Use MENOQUIL and enjoy your life. Firstly you have not mentioned your age, let it be.There are various phases of menopause and it mainly depends upon the age. According to age its changing from one phase to another. Menopause has various symptoms by which every women gets stressed.But MENOQUIL is the product that can give complete relief from menopause and its symptoms. Use MENOQUIL and enjoy your life.

]]> Comment on COULD SOME SORT OF DEPRESSION/MENTAL ILLNESS HAVE CAUSED MY WIFE TO WANT TO DIVORCE ME OUT OF THE BLUE? by Very Determined 1 http://menopausebbs.com/could-some-sort-of-depressionmental-illness-have-caused-my-wife-to-want-to-divorce-me-out-of-the-blue.htm/comment-page-1#comment-39614 Very Determined 1 Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:45:45 +0000 http://menopausebbs.com/could-some-sort-of-depressionmental-illness-have-caused-my-wife-to-want-to-divorce-me-out-of-the-blue.htm#comment-39614 I don't know if you're religious or not but the best thing for you to do is: PRAY FOR YOURSELF, YOUR WIFE, AND ESPECIALLY YOUR KIDS! One thing for sure is that your wife is going through SOMETHING right now! Whether it's mental or not I don't know. But I will let you in on a little secret (being a woman and all) sometimes we (women) go through things in life that we feel only WE are going through. We feel no one else understands and that everyone is against us and that we have the worst problems in the world. And a lot of times we're mad at some decisions we've made in life that we're not happy with so we tend to make the ones who treats us the best pay the price for our unknown hatred. I know that this may sound like a bunch of bull or that you may not even understand what I'm talking about but I've talked to other women that started to do some of the same things that your wife was doing and guess what (and I can put my life on this) the odd thing is they started doing it after their 3rd child. Now I am bewildered by this. I don't know if some type of time bomb is in our bodies that doesn't go off until we have our third child or what but it may be something that you should ask a doctor about. But I guess what I'm really trying to say is that your wife/ex-wife may not even know why she's behaving the way she is ( I know this may be hard to believe but it most definitely may be true!) She may also believe that she's not the one that's changed or that she has done anything wrong! (Now this is especially hard to believe but it too could be true!) She could also be a very manipulative, coniving, spiteful, miserable b**** whose goal in life is to make everyone else as miserable as she is! It seems to me that you've done all that you could do. Now the only thing left to do is PRAY, TURN IT OVER TO GOD, AND MOVE ON! Let go and let God! God Bless You! I will be praying for you, your wife/ex-wife, and your children! No matter what she does you keep doing the right thing. I promise you that the Lord will bless you in the end! I don’t know if you’re religious or not but the best thing for you to do is: PRAY FOR YOURSELF, YOUR WIFE, AND ESPECIALLY YOUR KIDS! One thing for sure is that your wife is going through SOMETHING right now! Whether it’s mental or not I don’t know. But I will let you in on a little secret (being a woman and all) sometimes we (women) go through things in life that we feel only WE are going through. We feel no one else understands and that everyone is against us and that we have the worst problems in the world. And a lot of times we’re mad at some decisions we’ve made in life that we’re not happy with so we tend to make the ones who treats us the best pay the price for our unknown hatred. I know that this may sound like a bunch of bull or that you may not even understand what I’m talking about but I’ve talked to other women that started to do some of the same things that your wife was doing and guess what (and I can put my life on this) the odd thing is they started doing it after their 3rd child. Now I am bewildered by this. I don’t know if some type of time bomb is in our bodies that doesn’t go off until we have our third child or what but it may be something that you should ask a doctor about. But I guess what I’m really trying to say is that your wife/ex-wife may not even know why she’s behaving the way she is ( I know this may be hard to believe but it most definitely may be true!) She may also believe that she’s not the one that’s changed or that she has done anything wrong! (Now this is especially hard to believe but it too could be true!) She could also be a very manipulative, coniving, spiteful, miserable b**** whose goal in life is to make everyone else as miserable as she is! It seems to me that you’ve done all that you could do. Now the only thing left to do is PRAY, TURN IT OVER TO GOD, AND MOVE ON! Let go and let God! God Bless You! I will be praying for you, your wife/ex-wife, and your children! No matter what she does you keep doing the right thing. I promise you that the Lord will bless you in the end!

]]> Comment on DO WOMEN STOP HAVING BABIES WHEN THEY REACH THE MENAPAUSE OR ARE THEY UNABLE TO ORGASM? by Joe C http://menopausebbs.com/do-women-stop-having-babies-when-they-reach-the-menapause-or-are-they-unable-to-orgasm.htm/comment-page-1#comment-39601 Joe C Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:29:13 +0000 http://menopausebbs.com/do-women-stop-having-babies-when-they-reach-the-menapause-or-are-they-unable-to-orgasm.htm#comment-39601 Please read: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/445051/do_women_have_as_strong_of_sex_drives.html Please read: http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/445051/do_women_have_as_strong_of_sex_drives.html

]]> Comment on HOW SEVERE CAN MOOD SWINGS BE ASSOCIATED WITH MENOPAUSE? by darlinebazile1 http://menopausebbs.com/how-severe-can-mood-swings-be-associated-with-menopause.htm/comment-page-1#comment-39622 darlinebazile1 Fri, 30 Jul 2010 02:12:47 +0000 http://menopausebbs.com/how-severe-can-mood-swings-be-associated-with-menopause.htm#comment-39622 How old are you? If you are in between the ages of 30 and 40, you could be experiencing perimenopause symptoms. This is the stage before menopause. Are you still getting your period? This is the stage where your period will also stop and get less frequent. There is a herbal supplement at http://perimenopausetreatment.org where it helped me with my mood swings a lot. How old are you? If you are in between the ages of 30 and 40, you could be experiencing perimenopause symptoms. This is the stage before menopause. Are you still getting your period? This is the stage where your period will also stop and get less frequent. There is a herbal supplement at http://perimenopausetreatment.org where it helped me with my mood swings a lot.

]]> Comment on COULD SOME SORT OF DEPRESSION/MENTAL ILLNESS HAVE CAUSED MY WIFE TO WANT TO DIVORCE ME OUT OF THE BLUE? by ~*STAR*~ http://menopausebbs.com/could-some-sort-of-depressionmental-illness-have-caused-my-wife-to-want-to-divorce-me-out-of-the-blue.htm/comment-page-1#comment-39613 ~*STAR*~ Fri, 30 Jul 2010 01:48:53 +0000 http://menopausebbs.com/could-some-sort-of-depressionmental-illness-have-caused-my-wife-to-want-to-divorce-me-out-of-the-blue.htm#comment-39613 She's crazy, I feel sorry for all the men that have to put up with her kind, I would be very concerned for my kids, is she mentally stable to give them the care they need? Is she treating them right? Are they safe? Some women do get a little coo-coo, my brother's wife suffers from anxiety and I know it's a common condition and when I talk to her I can tell right away she's not 100% normal, I can't imagine what her condition is. I wish you the best of luck and I hope all this gets better. She’s crazy, I feel sorry for all the men that have to put up with her kind, I would be very concerned for my kids, is she mentally stable to give them the care they need? Is she treating them right? Are they safe?
Some women do get a little coo-coo, my brother’s wife suffers from anxiety and I know it’s a common condition and when I talk to her I can tell right away she’s not 100% normal, I can’t imagine what her condition is. I wish you the best of luck and I hope all this gets better.

]]> Comment on DO WOMEN STOP HAVING BABIES WHEN THEY REACH THE MENAPAUSE OR ARE THEY UNABLE TO ORGASM? by Kashmir (oh yea) http://menopausebbs.com/do-women-stop-having-babies-when-they-reach-the-menapause-or-are-they-unable-to-orgasm.htm/comment-page-1#comment-39600 Kashmir (oh yea) Fri, 30 Jul 2010 01:45:24 +0000 http://menopausebbs.com/do-women-stop-having-babies-when-they-reach-the-menapause-or-are-they-unable-to-orgasm.htm#comment-39600 lol women can hopefully still orgsam, and no they cant have kids after menapause, they have no eggs left so stop menstrating, some also start to grown facial hair, get miagrains and other nasty little things that go along with ageing lol women can hopefully still orgsam, and no they cant have kids after menapause, they have no eggs left so stop menstrating, some also start to grown facial hair, get miagrains and other nasty little things that go along with ageing

]]> Comment on IS CONSISTENT BLEEDING NORMAL DURING MENAPAUSE? IS THIS ABNORMAL? COULD THIS BE A SIGN OF CANCER? by R & C N http://menopausebbs.com/is-consistent-bleeding-normal-during-menapause-is-this-abnormal-could-this-be-a-sign-of-cancer.htm/comment-page-1#comment-39616 R & C N Fri, 30 Jul 2010 01:32:52 +0000 http://menopausebbs.com/is-consistent-bleeding-normal-during-menapause-is-this-abnormal-could-this-be-a-sign-of-cancer.htm#comment-39616 I don't think it is normal. I didn't do that when I went through menopause. A visit to your doctor should clear up any questions you have. Take care of yourself, no one else will. Hope it is nothing, but get it checked out. I don’t think it is normal. I didn’t do that when I went through menopause. A visit to your doctor should clear up any questions you have.

Take care of yourself, no one else will. Hope it is nothing, but get it checked out.

]]> Comment on COULD SOME SORT OF DEPRESSION/MENTAL ILLNESS HAVE CAUSED MY WIFE TO WANT TO DIVORCE ME OUT OF THE BLUE? by etcha sketch http://menopausebbs.com/could-some-sort-of-depressionmental-illness-have-caused-my-wife-to-want-to-divorce-me-out-of-the-blue.htm/comment-page-1#comment-39612 etcha sketch Fri, 30 Jul 2010 01:25:01 +0000 http://menopausebbs.com/could-some-sort-of-depressionmental-illness-have-caused-my-wife-to-want-to-divorce-me-out-of-the-blue.htm#comment-39612 Mid-life crisis' look like this. Mid-life crisis’ look like this.

]]> Comment on COULD SOME SORT OF DEPRESSION/MENTAL ILLNESS HAVE CAUSED MY WIFE TO WANT TO DIVORCE ME OUT OF THE BLUE? by Pyar http://menopausebbs.com/could-some-sort-of-depressionmental-illness-have-caused-my-wife-to-want-to-divorce-me-out-of-the-blue.htm/comment-page-1#comment-39611 Pyar Fri, 30 Jul 2010 01:24:19 +0000 http://menopausebbs.com/could-some-sort-of-depressionmental-illness-have-caused-my-wife-to-want-to-divorce-me-out-of-the-blue.htm#comment-39611 You've been blindsided ... something inside her snapped . Could she be mentally ill ? yes it's possible but proving it is nearly impossible ... Just cut the strings , get divorced , save your own sanity. It's time to end it and get on with your life . My ex , divorced me after 20 years . Completely blind sided me . I never saw it coming . Turned out she was a computer addict and was having an affair with a guy from Switzerland ... I am now happily remarried . She is alone with her computer .The Swiss guy is long gone. Our son hates her and can't wait to head for college next fall . My relationship with him couldn't be better . If I saw a way ,I'd tell you but what I see is your marriage is dead . Start a new life while you still can . You’ve been blindsided … something inside her snapped . Could she be mentally ill ? yes it’s possible but proving it is nearly impossible … Just cut the strings , get divorced , save your own sanity. It’s time to end it and get on with your life . My ex , divorced me after 20 years . Completely blind sided me . I never saw it coming . Turned out she was a computer addict and was having an affair with a guy from Switzerland … I am now happily remarried . She is alone with her computer .The Swiss guy is long gone. Our son hates her and can’t wait to head for college next fall . My relationship with him couldn’t be better .
If I saw a way ,I’d tell you but what I see is your marriage is dead . Start a new life while you still can .

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